October’s ‘Interview a New Blogger’ introduces Sass C, a new voice in the community who has been very honest about lust and loss in her posts. Sass has recently thrown herself wholeheartedly into the writing memes.
Sass C is currently judging the latest #4Thoughts_Fiction posts submitted in response to the prompt theme of “Haunted” which she suggested – right on time for Halloween!
Let me clear the way for you to get to know this blogger better.
To introduce yourself, please tell us one possession which you treasured as a child (0-10)
Do you remember those cassette recorders called TalkBoy? Well I had a pink one and it was called TalkGirl. I love music and I love singing. So I remember that I would take it everywhere and make up random songs. There was one song that said something like, “Baby blue won’t you come to me. Hunny I like you too.” Ha ha. I’m not sure if I heard it somewhere or if those were genuinely my own lyrics, but I’ve never found a song with those lyrics on google so I’m thinking that I made it up. I must have been about 7 or 8 at the time.
Describe your blog using 3 words:
Could you expand your description a little:
1- Honest. I try to be honest about my feelings or what I am experiencing even if it’s not so pretty.
2 – Messy. Of course there are memes that I participate in, but my thoughts are a bit all over the place and sometimes, I word vomit on my blog.
3 – Secret. Those in my ‘vanilla’ life are kept in the dark about my blog because what goes on in my head would be deemed inappropriate by them so it’s definitely my best kept secret.
Is this your first attempt / foray into blogging? What attracted you to the genre of blog you’ve chosen?
No, I’ve blogged before. As a teenager, it was mainly just stupid high school drama. Later, it became about the woes of crushing on guys that I was invisible to. With sex blogging, it actually wasn’t my idea to get into this genre. In January when things were going well with Sir, he suggested that I start a blog to review sex toys. It ended up turning into something bigger than reviews.
What 3 keywords do you use when you’re looking for kinky inspiration?
1 – Bondage (pretty self explanatory…it’s one of my kinks).
2 – Milovana (if you’ve never heard of it, it’s a website with web teases. Honestly, the ones for women are a bit lame, but sometimes, it helps stir up some kinky creativity).
3 – Lingerie (ever since CL came into my life, I look up lingerie more. I mean more lingerie means more naughty photos ha ha).
If you were stranded on a desert island (with no power issues) name 3 things you would want to have with you (for instance kinky accessory / partner / book / film)
1 – A man
2 – A flare gun
3 – A machete
You’re in a drag or burlesque act – what’s your stage name?
Temptress Tokyo Tits. I’m Japanese and I show my tits a lot. I also think I seduce men by merely being Asian and having boobs so it fits I guess ha ha.
Which do you think evokes stronger memories – music or smell?
Please share an anecdote:
Definitely music. Sometimes, I’ll listen to a song and it’ll bring back memories of a person and I’ll start crying out of nowhere. I’ve had to stay away from listening to Nightwish and Tarja because Sir would have me listen to their music and we’d have conversations about the meanings of the songs. The wound he left is still pretty fresh so listening to their music makes me think of him and it’s too painful at the moment.
You can invite anyone (dead or alive) round for dinner; name 5 guests and tell us why
1 – Sir because I want to be able to ask why he just ghosted me. I want to know how he could just so coldly drop me after talking to me daily for 8 months.
2 – Elliott. Well, I guess the cat’s out of the bag now. I have a bit of a blogger crush on him…probably because of all the dick pics ha ha ha.
3 – Emily Dickinson. She is my favorite poet and the reason why I started writing poetry to begin with. There’s so much sorrow hidden in her poems and I want to hear her story.
4 – Lucy Liu. Random as it may be, growing up, she was one of the few Asian Americans in the entertainment industry. We didn’t have a lot of Asian American celebrity role models so seeing her in Charlie’s Angels and making a name for herself when I was a kid was a big deal.
5 – My late grandfather. He died several years ago, but after he passed, I didn’t want to feel the emotional pain from losing him. I made myself numb and I’d like to be able to see him again at least one more time to tell him all the things I regret not telling him before he passed. It’s a constant reminder to tell others you love them while you still have the chance.
Have you ever done something sexual in a public place? Spill!
If you don’t have a personal anecdote you can “tell us about a friend!’
I went on a date with this guy last year. I was wearing a dress and no panties. While we were eating, he would kiss me, squeeze my boobs and occasionally slip a hand under my dress to feel my pussy. After dinner, he asked if I wanted to talk in his car. His car was still in the restaurant parking lot, but I got into the backseat and he joined me. There was no talking because as soon as he got in, he lifted my dress above my waist and started eating me out. Then he took off his pants and fucked me. The windows got quite foggy and the car was shaking violently. I’m sure bystanders knew what we were doing in there.
Is there a blogger who inspired you to set up your site? Why?
I was completely new to sex blogging in January. I had never read any sex blogs before and I didn’t know that there was a whole community. It was really my own project with some suggestions from Sir. But the blogger that eventually led me to building more connections in the sex blogging community was Submissy. When she started following me, I was actually really excited ha ha. I was like, “Wow! I think she’s a really popular blogger and she noticed me!” Through her blog, I was introduced to memes and when I started writing for different memes, I built connections within the community.
Now you are a blogger, what’s your ‘go to site’? What draws you to it?
First of all, there’s Elliott. I mean you can’t have a blogger crush without regular visits to their blog. That’s why the comments I leave for him are quite flirtatious ha ha.
Then there’s MLSlavePuppet. I think her life is quite interesting and I love participating in Tie Me Up Tuesday. If I do ever enter another D/s relationship, I want a Mistress so her blog gives me a bit of a taste of that life.
And with the changes I’ve been making to my site lately, Blogable has definitely come in handy. I’ll have to explore more. Hopefully, by the new year, my site will be all that I want in terms of functionality and aesthetics.
Quick Fire questions:
Temperature or Impact Play
Chocolate or alcohol
Professional porn or amateur (genuine porn)? (Don’t watch a whole lot)
Stinging nettles or brambles? (I guess)
Quickie or sleepy sex
Coffee or tea
Play sport or watch sport?
How do you see your blog progressing – hopes and dreams?
I don’t really know. My blog is called The Sassy Sub Daily and it was intended to be about daily life as a submissive. Sir said I was sassy and I needed a pen name so it’s how sass c was born. But I thought Sir would be my forever Dom and I thought this blog would continue to document what it was like belonging to him. Now, I’m not so sure how this blog will progress as he left me and so I’m not so sure if I can even call myself a submissive anymore.
I think I’ll continue to blog daily until I hit at least the one year mark, but I need to re-evaluate the purpose of my blog. But one thing is for sure, my dream has always been to write and publish a novel so hopefully, I get there one day.
You’ve been so generous to share, let me return the favour. Tell me a “tool/aspect of blogging” about which you need a better grasp.
I’ll provide some information and bloggers reading this can add input via the comments.
Well, I blog daily and on the date that I’m answering this question (September 29th), I’ve written 260 blog posts. I haven’t missed a day since I’ve started blogging. Given how prolific my writing is, how do you suggest continuing to come up with new content? Sometimes, I feel as though I’m repeating myself because I can’t come up with new ideas anymore.
Thanks for your answers to my prying questions, it’s been a gift finding out more about you. My advice regarding keeping things fresh is to seek out prompts to ‘spark’ your inspiration. Story in 12 is a great Twitter prompt as is Fishnet Friday. There is something happening most days; some picture prompts while others require words. On a Saturday you could create a sharing post #SoSS is a tag to use if you’re sharing links to posts you’ve enjoyed.