Today I’m sharing an interview with Rebecca from Obliterating the Ordinary, a book by Vlad Lioncourt with the assistance of JS Sontrou which I recently reviewed. Let’s see how their delectable yet bratty fictional sub Rebecca handles my questions.
An interview with Rebecca (a fictional submissive)
Do you read about other D/s relationships, and if so what draws you to the blogs or stories you follow?
Years ago, when I first realized that a few men affected me in radically different ways than the majority, I knew that there was a side to me that I didn’t understand. These few men made me wet with just the slightest suggestion or bit of advice. Hell, often with just a look! It was so utterly bizarre. So I took to the internet to research it, finally stumbling across all I needed to know about being a natural submissive to a natural Dom. I loved reading the tweets and blogs of couples because it gave me perspectives from both sides of the aisle. It was also wonderful to compare and contrast my new relationships with what others had.
However, when it came to researching the more recent discoveries about myself, there was virtually no source I could find that would shed light on such filthy wants. While the need to find subspace is a very common thing, the way I wanted to do it is not. At all. I do not think there are many submissives that would pursue my route. I eventually abandoned my quest to find a guru or a soul sister, and pushed forward trusting only in myself.
List 5 words you use to search for the content you want to view
If I was to take up the search again? I don’t think it would be single words. I’m sure BDSM would be the first word, followed by other combinations like ‘voluntary slavery’, ‘absolute vulnerability’, ‘ultimate subspace’, ‘battle of wills’, and ‘full release’. Maybe ‘pain slut’. Sorry, that is six.
What is your favourite type of adult toy?
The good, old-fashioned dildo. But, I often use more than one at the same time. By closing my eyes and letting my memories flow I can get the full experience of double penetration any time I want.
What is the toy or style of play you enjoy the least, and does your Dom know?
I am not overly fond of working in front of a camera, and yes, he is most certainly aware of it. He rather enjoys pushing that button.
What’s your current sexuality, and how firm is that opinion? Describe the circumstance that revealed this was the right ‘fit’ for you?
I am strictly heterosexual and have known that forever. But Sir is obviously aware of my sense of adventure and lack of boundaries. I would not be surprised if a woman is brought into our play in the near future. I just know how his mind works.
Would it work? Be a good fit? If it happens, Sir will ensure that it would be a spectacular success – of this I am quite certain (God, is he going to read this??)
What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex? If dressed up, how so?
I adore getting dressed up! It makes me feel very special – very sexual. And Sir gets to unwrap me at his own pace.
Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try, even beyond what has been revealed in your biography?
Not at the moment. I just experienced my greatest fantasy, and I am still in recovery mode! I’m certain there are others that will show up in good time though.
Do you have an Achilles heel? / What’s your Kryptonite?
Having my bluff called (can you hear me sigh?). My lover is willing to push me harder than I portray. When he demands more than I anticipated – more than I think I can give at that moment – I get weak in my knees. I have to be challenged.
Is there a pivotal book that (may have) impacted your kinks?
No, not a book. But, there was an experience a friend of mine had on a dance floor, in a darkened night club, that seemed to ignite that want in me. She was such a good girl, but I kept wondering what would have happened had that been me. And, well, we know where that ended up.
Is there a fictional being or species you’d enjoy an encounter with?
Oooooo, I like this question. I’d like to seduce Superman, then he could invite the entire Justice League to ‘The Roissy’, where ‘O’ was trained, for a massive orgy. Wonder Woman and I would completely exhaust the men. I would become an honorary member.
You’re throwing a party – pick 5 guests (living or dead) to invite. Expand a little on why you chose them
Isabella Sinclaire – This gorgeous Dominatrix puts out high quality BDSM material. Her mind is fascinating, and to get a strong woman’s view on anything makes for great conversation.
Beethoven – Musical genius is sexy.
Cleopatra – The woman conquered Caesar and his successor. Just imagine the anecdotes!
Leonardo Da Vinci – The most impressive human who ever lived. Why wouldn’t you?
Genghis Khan – He went from nothing to ruling the greatest empire that has ever existed. Can you imagine the power emanating from his every pore? The pure animal magnetism?
What would you choose for your drag queen / burlesque dancer name?
Bourbon Glitter. Fun and sexy…
Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?
Oh god. I passed gas during a spanking…’nuff said.
Sexting – love it or hate it?
Love it, and I don’t think I am in the minority here (I may be smiling). It keeps lovers engaged when apart.
Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?
If you watch porn, is your preference for professional or amateur?
Amateur, by far, because their bodies are real, as are their reactions. The ultimate is to have amateurs in front of professional directors and cameramen.
Before you go, please guide us to a sex blog or story that we should add to our reading list
Rebel’s Notes is a must, as are yourself and May Moore. I would also recommend the stories of @InsomniaErotica and her pen name @KPasithea. @jssontrou has wonderful thoughts reflecting her love of bondage, struggle, endurance and impact play.
Btw, Posy, you once wrote a tale about a submissive who was enslaved by her Sir’s post-hypnotic suggestions. Not only was it off-scale hot to me, it was the closest story I found to where my mind was at that time. I was impressed that you took such a chance. Kudos.
And of course, “Obliterating the Ordinary.”
Thank you so much Rebecca for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!