For #KinkoftheWeek previously I have shared my thoughts on Love Bites – which probably indicate the genesis of my journey into kink. These, of course count as “marks” which is the current prompt. In that post I admitted to loving marking my OH by biting and sucking to make red/purple love bites on his buttocks to brand him as mine, knowing that he went to the gym every day, sometimes twice a day. We don’t have a D/s relationship but I can be a bit ‘toppy’ with him.
I like to grow my nails long and sometimes during sex he’ll feel them scrape his back, or I’ll grip his buttocks so that they dig in. I wouldn’t do it hard and deep enough to draw blood. To me deep scratches would be a step too far.
Marks attract me, as a way of indicating that he and I are bonded, were intimate, got wild together. An organic branding, a sign of our passion. I wouldn’t flaunt them, but I’d be comfortable with people getting a glimpse, a flash. Yet would I be brave enough? I admire the red welts and stripes many of my fellow bloggers display after being whipped, caned, spanked or lashed with a belt, but I question whether I could withstand the pain of receiving them.
I agree with Victoria, a self confessed masochist, who sustains bruises during sexy play and, made ebullient by the marks she’s received, glories in them. If I had stripes or bruises I would feel pleasure all over again admiring them.
The closest I’ve got to this scenario is after intense nipple play, when they’ve been abraided, pulled, twisted, bitten and pinched (I’m still too wimpy to use clamps), all techniques which heighten my arousal and intensify my eventual climax. Afterwards, in repose, my nipples feel tender and sore, every brush of my blouse across my aureoles, each press of my arm against my breasts issues a reminder, the friction or pressure gives me yelps of discomfort causing my mind to revisit our play with a smugĀ smile!
I’ve done plenty of of research on nipplegasms, (Frolic.Me & The Big Fling) and can achieve them during solo play, so I know that intense stimulation in this area leads to rewarding, full body orgasms. But like many other forms of sex play and stimulation, pain tolerance is on a sliding scale. Hence what has one person on the brink of using their safeword will have another lambent with pleasure while longing for more.
In conclusion – I like to give and receive the marks of a love bite, discreetly placed where only a lover can admire them.
I fantasise about being punished on my glowing backside which is then decorated a with few prime stripes.
Most of all, I enjoy the barely visible marks of tormented, over-stimulated nipples. These provide aftershocks of pleasure / pain which remind me of the sexy play which originally indurated and engorged them. They’re the gift which keeps on giving!
I took achallenge to useĀ new words in my writing, in case (like me) you aren’t familiar with them all, here they are with their definitions
Genesis : The origin, the original form of something
Ebullient : Cheerful, full of energy
Indurate : To harden
Lambent : Glowing, gleaming or flickering with a soft radiance
Repose : A state of calm relaxation or contemplation
Great words, let’s the imagine run wild!
The tingling feeling after being spanked or bitten on the lip does more for me.
Oh goodness, high praise indeed. I had forgotten about the kiss that turns into a bite – a little ferral love!
Great use of the words. I’d kind of forgotten that love bites are the place where many of us started with marks. Great post Posy xx
Thanks Julie, I loved new words and incorporating some into my writing. Thanks so much for your positive comment. xx
I love bites too – less visible ones I must admit. I don’t like to show my marks off in public, I prefer to keep them unvisible unless showing them on my blog!
BTW, you look utterly hot AF in that image! x
Totally get you too (just read your post) – thanks for commenting, especially about my latex corset! xx
The warm throb of a spanked bum is the best but love bites are so fucking hot
Mollyx
Brilliant Posy – great use of the words too š
I think you have a queue of people wanting to spank u!
xx
Thanks May! I love flexing my verbosity!! Yeah I think I do too, why oh why was I so honest?!!
Love that painful reminiscent nipple ache, yes!! I’m also a fan of scraping my long fingernails down his back!! (Sadly mine are shorter at the moment, but they’ll have grown back soon!) Great image, by the way! ?
Mmm-hmmm, that’s what I’m talking about! Yummy fun! Thanks hun x
This is a hot topic as well as your photo š
Aha! It caught your interest? I’m delighted
That’s an amazing picture!
You’re always so supportive MW