Purple square with Mic for interview

This weekend, my Dark Darlings, I am sharing an interview with a sexy blogger who sometimes shares his writing with us ~ I can hardly believe last week saw his first ever #Masturbation Monday entry Pornographic Echoes.  

And here is his #EuphOff entry : Beef Encounter

I am not sure how to address him, I know he writes under several pen names but on Twitter he is Starcross@LoveLustLondon

What Starcross writes, I like to hunker down in peace to read, because this guy has a knack for tasteful filth.  I met him only briefly this year at Eroticon, so we have vowed to talk more next year.  Read his interview and see what a fascinating guy he is.

 

  • What made you decide to write on an adult/erotic theme?

 

 

I once read an article in (someone else’s) Cosmopolitan magazine about a sex party and it struck a chord. From that point I decided to put my thoughts about my exploration of kink and non-monogamy onto a blog.

 

 

  • What draws you to the blogs you follow?

 

 

Content which makes me think, as well as helps me to understand the endless subject of sex, kink and open relationships. Other blogs have incredible erotica – for free! – which guides me in my writing. Then there are those which showcase ridiculously sexy, extremely clever erotic photography. So much good stuff out there!

 

 

  • What is your favourite type of adult toy?

 

 

Rabbit-style vibrators. So far I’ve yet to find a toy that does anything for me on/in any part of my body, but these vibrators always have spectacular results with my partners. Bringing them to orgasm is a source of great pleasure for me.

 

 

  • If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the adult item or film or book you’d take with you:

 

 

Does my sub count as an item?! OK, I guess not. It would have to be Delta of Venus by Anaïs Nin. I first found this book as an impressionable pre-teen on my parent’s bookshelf and delighted in the images it conjured in my head. I’ve revisited many times since and never fail to be titillated, in various different ways.

 

 

  • What’s your current sexuality?  At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?

 

 

I’m heterosexual, I guess, but I don’t yet think I’ve reached the age where this is the right fit for me. I’ve certainly become more curious about my sexuality the further I delve into kink and certainly wouldn’t be averse to being in the presence of another naked man in the right situation, in fact there’s a chance I’d enjoy it.

 

 

  • What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex?  If dressed up, how so?

 


Dressed up, although that state never lasts for long. It’s fun to get a tantalising glimpse of a partner’s body, or to tease them with, say, tight boxer shorts. Of course being dressed up is only enjoyable knowing that, at some point, you’re going to see one another naked.

 

 

  • Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?

 

 

Pegging. My wife isn’t keen and it would just seem too weird to try it with my sub. I’d only try it with someone who was just as excited to be the pegger as I would be as peggee.

 

 

  • Name a pivotal moment in your youth which may have set the path for your sex life:

 

 

 Apart from the discovery of that Anaïs Nin book, it would have to be surreptitiously watching Debbie Does Dallas as a teenager with some friends. I wanted to try everything – orgies, threesomes, objectification…everything!

 

 

  • Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:

 

 

So many! Let’s say the Studio Ghibli character Totoro – a playful, cheerful character who, like me, has a deep love of woodlands.

 

 

  • You’re going to a party – if you could pick 5 ideal guests (living or dead) to meet and party with, who would they be?  Expand a little on why you chose them.

 

 

Queen Victoria, It would be fascinating to learn what it felt like to rule most of the planet

My dear departed dog, because she gave everyone joy and this time I’d get to say goodbye

Stephen Hawking, in the hope that he’s figured out the after life (if there is one) and can explain it to me

Commander Chris Hadfield, so that I could hear his space stories and  discuss the possibility of aliens and whether or not they’d be benevolent.

Sarah Michelle Geller, Boyhood crush, manhood crush.

Sarah Michelle Gellar pic

 

  • Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?

 

 

Hmmm, there’ve been more than a few, but a recent attempt at sex on a small boat to Antarctica proved to be more amusing than it was successful, thanks to being in a storm with 12-metre waves. Fortunately there was a Satisfyer Pro to hand to get her on her way to a more stable orgasm!

 

 

  • Sexting – love it or hate it?

 

 

Love, love, love it. Being away from a partner for more than a few days it’s always fun to tease one another and build up the anticipation until we next meet.

 

 

  • Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?

 

 

Eyes Wide Shut. Yes, it’s an overall terrible film, but the orgy scene contains some monumentally hot scenarios, such as putting a woman on display in front of dozens of clothed men, threesomes, group sex, public sex etc.

 

 

  • If you watch porn, do you have a preference for professional or amateur? 

 

 

Professional, but that may be because I haven’t really explored amateur porn.

 

 

  • Before you go, please advise us 1 sex blog which we should add to our reading list:

 

The blog I’d like to nominate is because it’s like picking up a magazine with a large variety of content, all of it hugely engaging.

Posy Says:  I adore @LuvBunny‘s blog too! Always worth a browse.

Starcross dressed in suit and shirt standing by wardrobe

Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!  

Now onto some #SoSS links that I want to share with you from my week’s blog browsing:

 

Ria’s guy is masturbating to porn, should she stop him or join him? 

 

Sirs’ #1 Kitten writes about hand holding as trust, support, an outward show of love 

 

Rosie’s futuristic story about having clones of herself takes a sexy spill off the rails! 

 

Ina’s hand is held, but her heart is left fluttering 

 

LSB enhances her boobs with the honey from the Eroticon goody-bag 

 

Ella’s backseat deal had me longing to swap places, it was so spicy and enthralling 

 

Lovely power dynamic here, and the sexiness oozes in Alethea’s love bite short 

 

Molly’s sexy little tale of a hunt from the prey’s PoV 

 

Contagion gets perverted and sexy when Kis writes it!

My shares in Pillow Talk this week were:

For Friday Flash: Bursting

For Masturbation Monday: What I Took Away from Eroticon 2019 [2 of 2]

For Lingerie is for Everyone: Cage-Style Lingerie

Words Share our Shit Saturday on white confetti

 

 

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