Month: April 2019

Loving Myself

“Loving yourself isn’t vanity. It’s sanity.” – Andre Gide [2 minute read] I’ve written a previous post about when I discovered how much I enjoyed time spent with my hands down my pants during puberty.  Privacy was at a premium when I was at boarding school, so sometimes being in the shower was the only …

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I wear black lace …

When I don’t know what to wear, I wear black lace. Quote: Carine Roitfield (former Editor-in-Chief of Paris Vogue)     For #SinfulSunday this week I am modelling a black lace bodystocking from Bondara. Click the link to see who else is participating in this photographic meme.

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When I’m Home Alone

[3 minute read] It’s not as hard as it used to be, finding time to myself so I can indulge in some self pleasure. I know masturbation is good for me, releasing endorphins and providing a sense of well-being.   I’m a wife and mother, but now my family is older, they have their own …

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Anxiety : #sb4MH

I pledge my support to Sex Bloggers for Mental Health, check out who else is sharing I have written this piece on anxiety from my own experience of suddenly experiencing anxiety attacks age 50. Putting the blame on being perimenopausal and an unpleasant work situation, I found cognitive behaviour therapy helpful, providing support and strategies …

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Book Reviews – Indie Authors

Hey my Dark Darlings, it’s time to fly the flag for independent authors writing sexy fiction. For #MasturbationMonday I have reviewed two quite different books, both erotic but with subject matter of quite diverse sexual gratification.   Let’s start with a lesbian fiction which features an other-worldly being and explores domination and submission: Eliza Loveless …

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