Hello my Dark Darlings,

This week I am featuring a strong woman who is relatively new to our blogging community so the theme with the links I’ve shared is ‘strong too.  I hope you will enjoy and share forward.

Ella’s Halloween spells take Helen to the hedonistic flip-side  

Asrai’a evocative tale of frisson and yearning in an early intimate experience which burns so brightly! 

Floss has a little afternoon delight planned, depending on how well her cleaner has performed!  

This slightly taboo series of May’s has a surprise with every twist and turn 

If you haven’t already discovered Nicci’s tale of a young guy pushing his sexual boundaries then I suggest you start here and read all 8 (only 8 so far!) mouthwatering episodes 

Tabitha has been yearning for this satisfaction all day 

Steeled Snake plays scrabble but not a family friendly version!  

Interviewing Zebra Rose Sub

• What made you decide to write a sex blog?

I love to write, and I love sex! I’d dabbled with a bit of poetry and some short stories on FetLife, and I really got inspired when I attended Eroticon 2018. I was there mostly to support DivaFoofJo as she was presenting, but when I heard Girl on the Net’s inspirational opening speech about words changing the world, I thought “I want to be part of this”. I started by joining in with a few memes and just got hooked.

• What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?

I have a condition called Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, which affects a lot of my body and my life. It took me a long time to get a diagnosis, because med students are taught in med school “when you hear hoofbeats, look for horses, not zebras’ – ie, most ailments have a common cause; rather than a rare one. However, this leads to a bias against diagnosing rare conditions at all – zebras do exist! The zebra has become the mascot of rare conditions, and a lot of people who have those conditions identify as ‘zebras’. So, I thought I’d include that because it is a big part of my life. The ‘Rose’ part is based on a poem I wrote early on in my blogging journey, and also because it’s quite close to my legal name so I’d be less likely to forget it!. 

• Describe your blog in a nutshell:

It’s where I wallow in filth for the purpose of entertainment. Hang on, that makes me sound like a fairground pig…..Um, it’s fiction, introspection, art and fun; mostly on the topic of kinky sex.

• How long have you been blogging on this theme?

About six months – wow, is that all? It feels like I’ve always been part of this friendly and welcoming world….maybe it feels like longer because I’ve spent so much time reading and writing sex blogs. It’s my favourite pastime – along with actually having sex, that is.

• What is your favourite type of adult toy?

That’s a really tricky question……probably the Womanizer because it is always 100{7babff1cb67f4c599261226f7da183dd7e6378d19ac0860006c40c7c9ce73ebf} guaranteed to get me off, no matter how tired or grumpy I am!

• If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:

The WeVibe Rave – for versatility. It’s a g-spot vibe but works really well when just pressed against my clit. The vibration is deep and rumbly, the intensity can be dialled up and down, and the patterns aren’t *all* pointlessly annoying! Also, it’s quite substantial so I could use it for clubbing coconuts out of trees as well.

• What’s your current sexuality?  At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?

I’m bisexual and I’ve identified that way since I was about 14 (although chasing after the other girls as well as the boys when playing ‘kiss chase’ in primary school probably ought to have given me a clue). I always knew I was attracted to women as well as men but I didn’t have a word for it when I was younger. I come from a very strict religious background, so even heterosexuality was considered something guilty and shameful outside the marital bed – I had a lot of catching up to do as a teenager, learning about the world. I’m also a submissive (albeit a pretty assertive one) and a masochist.

• What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex?  If dressed up, how so?

Ooh, I don’t think I have a preference – dressed up is very sexy (I have a crotchless lace bodystocking which is both super comfortable and wonderfully flattering) but simply tearing off one another’s clothes to get at all the skin is also brilliant. I probably dress up more for wanking than I do for partnered sex! Lace gloves and collar are my favourite mirror-wanking outfit. I’d love to explore dressing up and role play a bit more.

• Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?

I really really want to be tied up and fucked by two guys at once. I’ve had threesomes with a guy and another girl which were awesome, but there’s just something about the idea of being helplessly, mercilessly used by two men at once…..*fans self*…

Also, being the beta sub to a dominant women and a switchy man. I have sooo many wanks lined up for that one!

Most of the erotica I write on my blog is based on my fantasies – in some ways, it’s more fun to write them because then they are perfect and unspoiled forever – whereas when you start getting reality and real people involved, things never quite work out the way you imagined them. Also, my fantasies can be pretty dark and I’m not sure if I could cope with actually acting them out….

•  Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:

What kind of encounter??? A sexy one? In that case, definitely the hybrid Ripley/Alien from Alien:Resurrection. Oh my, Sigourney Weaver is so damn hot in that movie. I do love a predatory woman!  😉

• Anal sex – Meh or Yay?

OH HELL YEAH. God, I love being fucked in the arse.

• Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?

Let’s just say it’s never a good idea to forget to wash one’s hands thoroughly between cooking with chillies and having sex. I’m not sure which he found funnier; my frantic, eye-watering hopping up and down, or the fact that I had to admit that the pain also sort of turned me on!

• Sexting – love it or hate it?

Love, love, love sexting – as long as the grammar and punctuation are correct. Apostrophe misuse is such a turn-off! In fact, that’s kinda how I see my blog – me sexting with the world!

• Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?

Erm……um…..ok, so here’s a confession – my very first awareness of kink and my bisexuality was when I saw the party scene from ‘Teenwolf’ – you know that bit where the girls are tied up and wriggling around on the floor in bikinis, covered in cream or jelly or something? That remains my biggest horn-trigger to this day. Tied up? Almost naked? On the floor? Lots of people standing around jeering? YUMMY!

I realise that’s not actually supposed to be an erotic scene! I really can’t think of any movie that reflects my sexuality enough to actually have a favourite erotic scene….

• Do you watch porn?  

Regularly and enthusiastically! I love kink.com because of their ethical stance and the imaginative scenes they show. When I’m watching solo, I tend to go for gay male porn – I love to see two (or more!) beefy guys getting it on. 

• Nominate your favourite adult film:

My attention span doesn’t last long enough for me to actually concentrate on a full-length film so I don’t actually know any, sorry!

• Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:

Just one?! That’s difficult – so many totally fabulous ones to choose from. I’d have to say ‘On Queer Street’ by Quinn Rhodes – I love her writing, it’s such a touching combination of raw vulnerable honesty and knicker-soaking wicked filth.

Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!  

Thank you! Mwah!


You can find Zebra Rose on Twitter @ZebraRoseSub  and you can find her writing for Latex Leather and Lace : https://www.thefetishfairies.com/author/zebrarosesub/