Yikes!  Well, my Dark Darlings, the summer is drawing to a close, mornings and evenings have a chill to them & all our bank holidays are behind us until Christmas!  
On a more cheerful note lets look at my hi-lights of blogging contributions this week.  Following this I have an interview from one of our bravest photographic subjects: Modesty Ablaze – who dares to be naked in so many populated locations!  You have to admire her front! (and we do!)

Jade discussed meme collaboration, how her blog came to be and invites newbies to her Scavenger Hunt meme.

Exposing 40 examines collaboration with a selection of her friends sharing memories of fun times capturing her beautiful photographs

Bratty babygirl and Daddy shennanigans from Ella! 

Mischa Eliot’s subject has a sexy daydream which might be more than it seems  

Jor’s story of a girl dodging wandering hands while looking for a meaningful relationship 

Hannah explores an attraction to other women 

Pixie is keen to misbehave to please her Daddy 

Floss struggles to say I L Y but here are 10 reasons she loves her man

Melody’s beautiful prose made me ponder my own perception of love 

My all time favourite image shared for the #SinfulSunday meme 

On my own blog this week I have posted:

#Sinful Sunday  : Bibliophile – image of me with my NSFW book collection

#Masturbation Monday : My story continues with Sir covertly reading more of rabbit’s diary

Smut Relay & #Wicked Wednesday  The baton was passed to me for part 7 of the Smut relay – a tale of piracy, betrayal and a sexy, damaged girl wanting revenge for her older sister.

I’ve also been compiling a piece on Nipplegasms which I hope will be published on FrolicMe (a one-stop-shop for exquisitely filmed erotic shorts and sexy writing).  I don’t want to give too much away but two quotes I’ll share, relevant to breasts needing more focus during foreplay:

  •  “Guys should stop trying to jump to the middle of the movie!” 
  • “Treat a woman’s body like an elevator – stop on every floor!”

Modesty Ablaze Unmasked

  • What made you decide to write a sex blog?

My blog started almost as a joke, or dare really. Hubby and I had been idly channel-hopping on the TV and stumbled across one of those technology programs. It was all about the explosion of “normal people” using blogging sites to blog about their hobbies or interests. I joked to Hubby “I could start a blog on how much I love sex”. He said “I dare you! You could post all those diary entries you’ve been writing for years and years” . . . and a few days later Modesty Ablaze was born.

I never imagined anyone would even FIND my blog, let-alone find it interesting. But within a few weeks I started receiving more and more visits . . . and some lovely flattering and sweet emails, comments and lots and lots of questions about our lifestyle.

I suddenly found myself adding more posts, some of our fun pictures . . . answering all the questions and sharing news and links of some of my favourite erotic authors and blog-sites.

And it has just continued from there, with lots and lots of fun . . . particularly with my “Scavenger Hunt” postings.


  • What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?


My blog name Modesty Ablaze came about from a one of my “Cougar Moments” with an extremely energetic young man at our local Swingers Club. After we emerged from the “viewing room” to a round of applause from quite a crowd of on-lookers, I blushingly giggled to my young lover “you’ve sent my modesty up in flames”. He replied “Modesty Ablaze”.


  • Describe your blog in a nutshell:


As I say in my “18+ Warning Rider” the intention of “Modesty Ablaze” has always been to promote Body Positive & Sex Positive issues; not to take sex too seriously and . . . most importantly . . . to make people smile and feel better than when they first arrived at modestyablaze.com.


  • How long have you been blogging on this theme?


I posted my first blog-post in January of 2012. 


  • What is your favourite type of adult toy?


Lol !!! – It depends on the moment . . . the situation . . . and my companions at the time !!!

  • If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:


Oh gosh . . .  I normally pack at least three or four whenever I’m off on my hols!!!

But . . . if I’m only allowed one . . . I suppose it would have to be Hubby !!!


  • What’s your current sexuality?  At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?


I would describe my current sexuality as “Active”

I don’t think there was ever a specific age . . . it just seems to have happened naturally !!! 


  • What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex?  If dressed up, how so?


I ALWAYS prefer to be naked . . . and not just for sex !!!



  • Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?


I think I’ve tried (and enjoyed) most kinks or fantasies I’d wanted to try . . . but I’m always interested in “new” experiences !!! 


  • Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:


Lol !!! . . . Priapus 


  • Anal sex – Meh or Yay?


Well I do have to be in the right mood . . . but yes occasionally if I’m asked, and treated, nicely !!!


  • Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?


Standing at the bar in our favourite Swinging Club and having a work colleague walk in from the entrance lobby! We both stood looking at each other for a few seconds, both mouthing “Oh my God!” before breaking into giggles and “Fancy meeting you HERE!!!” welcomes as we greeted each other. After introducing our husbands to each other, we spent the next 30 minutes at the bar joking and laughing and talking about our experiences.

We passed each other several times during the evening . . . but no, we didn’t indulge!!!


  • Sexting – love it or hate it?


Well I suppose the titillation of “sexting” can be fun . . . but I much prefer the real thing, rather than tap-tap-tapping !!!


  • Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?


I prefer to film my own !!!


  • Do you watch porn?  


Yes at my fav porn site makelovenotporn.tv !!!


  • Nominate your favourite adult film:


Always my own most recent submission to makelovenotporn.tv . . . until I film the next one!!!


  • Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:

Being serious . . . just for a moment !!! . . . I really do recommend everyone to view the presentation-video that MakeLoveNotPorn founder Cindy Gallop gave at TED2009 >here<  = https://blog.ted.com/cindy_gallop_ma/ . . . for a truly inspirational, and motivational, insight into her starting MakeLoveNotPorn. 

Because, as I say on my own page-linkMakeLoveNotPorn is simply all about Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex. From a women’s point of view, I find that so empowering because it is so obviously completely consensual, arousing and erotic . . . unlike most other on-line porn. 

I like watching sex that is erotic . . . BUT . . . I want it to be real and respectful and fun. Something that I can relate to on my own, personal, level – and MakeLoveNotPorn.tv does exactly that.


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Comments (1)

  1. Reply

    I am such a Modesty fan – she is just fabulous, and very modest ;-). And Wow – my SS shot your favourite so far – thank you 😉 x

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