Purple square with Mic for interview

Sharing our Shizzle, Deal with It!!



Hello my Dark Darlings!  Well the summer vacation has officially begun, so for this week’s #SoSS let’s jump straight into the sparkling water and get our feet wet!  Some great links will follow of articles and stories and pictures which have entertained me this week – I hope you feel the same about them!










http://pieces-of-jade.com/2018/07/18/baby-baby-i-hear-a-symphony/  Look out!  This post is quite inter-active!




https://books1799.wordpress.com/2018/07/18/come-on-eileen/  Beautifully timed to follow the Twitter discussion on including the use of condoms in our erotica, Pons does so very appropriately and, in fact, enhanced the plot with its inclusion!

Purple square with Mic for interviewMy next delightful job is to introduce you to a blogger who is fairly new to me, discovered from the wilds of the #Summer100, a great meme which Isabel is hosting. Some of my favourite bloggers are writing more, and some new blogging voices are being heard, such as the Barefoot Sub, who has bared her soul in the interview below.

  • What made you decide to write a sex blog?

I asked Sir for some things to do to maintain the connection during his long absences. Among other things he tasked me with creating a blog. I knew nothing of this world when he asked me to get started, and I am blown away at how much I enjoy the community.  

  • What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?

From the outset of rediscovering my kinks Sir would encourage me to take leaps of faith. Starting the blog was another “Leap of Faith”. The barefoot sub is a name that just fits. It came to me at the end of another night where I had started the night in heels and ended up walking around in my bare feet.  

  • Describe your blog in a nutshell:

My blog is the story of how I became the woman I am today. From a fragile abused wife to a strong, independent and bloody-minded hedonist. 
I am also enjoying engaging in the various regular memes and getting to know people from around the  blogging community

  • How long have you been blogging on this theme?

I started my blog in January this year, so a little over six months.

  • What is your favourite type of adult toy?

Do I really only get to pick one? I love hitty things. But then I love rope. And there are so many buzzy and insertable toys… E-stim! Oh yes… 

Oh hang on, Candles. Nope, I can’t do it, I can’t choose.

  • If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:

I would take many hanks of nylon rope. I have hands that I could use, I could fashion hitty things and insertables. But if I was on my own on a desert island I would need mental stimulation, entertainment and hugs. In the absence of arms a rope hug is very welcome.

  • What’s your current sexuality?  At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?

I have struggled with this for a very long time. I would class my sexuality as submissive. I love to have sex with men and women with a preference for cock. I am Sir’s slut, and love the way that I am free to be myself with him and his guidance, but without the power exchange I could almost class myself as a-sexual. 

  • What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex?  If dressed up, how so?


  • Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?

There are so many, but my long term goal is needle suspension.

  • Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:

The Greek God Priapus. He was a minor rustic fertility god, protector of flocks, fruit plants, bees and gardens and known for having an enormous penis. 

  • Anal sex – Meh or Yay?

Yay, yay and more yay!!

  • Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?

When I was about 17 I met a man in a club and we got on very well. So well, in fact, that I took him to a field near my house when the club kicked out. We ended up rolling in the field stark naked, until I started to swell up like a balloon. I suffered with severe hay fever, and my exposed skin was not coping well with the intense dose of pollen. Poor fella, I’m not sure he knew what to do! Mind you, it wasn’t the last I saw of him so a swollen, itchy and blotchy me obviously didn’t deter him.

  • Sexting – love it or hate it?

Done well it is something I enjoy. If it is any less than excellent then I loathe it.

  • Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?


Very Bad Things has a great scene where a bachelor party goes horribly wrong. It is incredibly hot, up until the point where the stripper ends up hanging from her skull on a bathroom hook.

  • Do you watch porn?  

I do love watching porn, I like sharing what I have found with Sir and others as well. 

  • Nominate your favourite adult film:

I have only seen Secretary in the adult film category on IMDB so by that logic that has to be my favourite. I really need to watch Shamed though. Michael Fassbender? Um-hmmm…

  • Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:

I found A Kinky Autistic this week, and they make up part of my #SOSS. A lot of thought provoking content over there.

Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!  I hope you enjoyed our peek behind the curtain at the real “Barefoot Sub”, she has certainly laid herself quite bare.  You can follow her:

On Twitter: @thebarefootsub
On Instagram:  the_barefoot_sub

But you probably won’t recognise her down at the supermarket from this picture she’s included!

This week I have shared:
e-Lust:  My #SinfulSunday image “Candy Shop” is on the sidebar for this month!  E-Lust is a great sharing/showcasing vehicle organised by @Molly’sDailykiss
I won’t have much internet access next week, so may be unable to share any content, but the ideas will be ticking over in my head!  Take care Dark Darlings!

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