What I share each week on #SoSS is what I have read and enjoyed. Sometimes I have the time to go down rabbit holes and find stuff by new authors, but I confess to being a bit jaded this week so have mainly visited #MasturbationMonday and #WickedWednesday’s memes – but I haven’t even finished reading of them them yet!  I must also read the stories submitted for the #SmutMarathon so that I can vote, the numbers are narrowing down, but I liked the sound of the prompt “Fortune Cookie” – a piece of 650 words.

We heard very sad news this week that “M” from Cammies on the Floor had died; many people are posting their tributes to/ memories of this wonderful, wise, fun and generous blogger on  a page of #Food4ThoughtFriday.

http://asraidevin.com/sexy-quickie-bar-scene/

https://behephaestus.wordpress.com/2018/07/11/our-corporal-reward/

https://mycontrolledascent.com/2018/07/09/canvas-masturbation-monday-201/

https://niccihaydon.com/2018/07/09/free-erotica-kiss-me/

https://fireandhoney.wordpress.com/2018/07/09/yours/

https://melodyinsights.com/thoughts-on-financial-domination/

https://littleswitchbitch.com/2017/09/01/menstrual-cup-experience/

• What made you decide to write a sex blog?

There were several things that spurred me to write a sex blog. Firstly, I was involved in the Lovehoney Tester Community, so was receiving products to review regularly. Then I discovered that there were people out there who actually did this on a daily basis; I read a few and decided to turn my own hand to it. I didn’t think it would actually catch on, but here we are – 4 years later! Some people can sing, some people can dance… my talent is writing about masturbation!

• What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?

I really wish there was a funny story behind ‘The Big Gay Review’ but simply put I am a big gay who reviews sex toys and what not… that’s literally it!

• Describe your blog in a nutshell:

Basically it’s a place to read about the best toys for the penis or prostate. It’s mostly sex toy reviews but we’ve dabbled with erotica too.

• How long have you been blogging on this theme?

So we are just over the 4 year mark. We went live on the 17th May 2014.

• What is your favourite type of adult toy?

This is a tough one; but I guess I love a good masturbator. I usually don’t need to prepare myself too much for a session with one.  Just whip out some lube and away we go! My current go-to is the TENGA Flip-Zero EV. It’s a very pricey toy but oh my goodness… it certainly hits all the right spots!

• If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:

Doxy. In a heartbeat. I was one of those people, who for a long time thought you could only use a magic wand if you had a clitoris. How wrong I was!  They are the most versatile sex toy, and almost ANYONE can use one.

• What’s your current sexuality?  At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?

I identify as homosexual. I came out at 16 (well, a few days prior to my 16th Birthday). I had always felt… different but could never really express myself properly, or understand why I felt so different. Around about the age of 14, I discovered ‘Queer as Folk’ late night on Channel 4. It was the infamous ‘rimming’ scene… it sparked something in me, but I still didn’t quite understand what I was feeling. My best friend confided in me that he was having similar feelings, and we soon became each others support network – and with his help I was able to finally put my feelings into perspective and realised that I was gay. The early 00’s were a very mixed up time for me!

• What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex?  If dressed up, how so?

Naked, but with the lights very low! I still have some self-confidence issues, so generally the lights have to be low and then I feel comfortable! Although I’ve never really tried ‘dressing’ up for sex, but you know, I wouldn’t be averse to it.

• Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?

My biggest fantasy involves sex in the middle of the woods, in the summer, during a rainstorm. It’s very specific. Being held against a tree as the rain soaks us through… yeah, that’s my idea of heaven!

• Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:

Captain America. With his beard. You know what I’m talking about.

• Anal sex – Meh or Yay?

A big huge YAY! Like, it’s not the most important part of sex really, but when the moment is right, it can be phenomenal. I would describe myself as versatile, so I enjoy giving and receiving. Of course, if you don’t like it, that’s OK too!

• Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?

Nothing that’s like hilarious; but you know, little things like accidentally cumming in my own eye raised a giggle. Oh and being in the ‘heat’ of things, not realising the dog has snuck in and suddenly jumps on the bed… yeah, that was less funny at the time; but I can see the funny side now.

• Sexting – love it or hate it?

This isn’t something we’ve ever really done, but you know, I would absolutely be down for giving it a try.  I mean, I’ve maybe sent the odd suggestive snap in the past but nothing too intensive.

• Do you watch porn?  

Not as much as I used to; but yeah there are days where I feel the need for something a little more stimulating.

• Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:

Oh this is probably the hardest question of all! There are SO many adult blogs out there, and they are all far more active than I am at the moment. But if I had to pick ONE, the one I have been reading the most recently is Scandarella; who was recently nominated for an ETO Award, and it’s not difficult to see why. A healthy mix of reviews and extremely well written erotica – I think there is something there that everyone can enjoy.

Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!

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