Suggested Blog Reading and a Saucy Interview!
Sex with Emily – Masturbation in Sex Ed
The Pink Seam – Mantis Moon
And the Sprinkles on the Sauce … an Interview with Tabitha Rayne!
- What made you decide to write a sex blog?
Actually, my blog started out as a way to promote my books and do blog tours. I really had no intention of sharing my own sex life and thoughts. It just kind of evolved that way.
- •What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?
My current blog is boringly, just my name Tabitha Rayne – but my first blog was called An Erotic Adventure – which I kind of miss – it was pretty accurate in the end.
- Describe yourself/ your blog in a nutshell:
Oh god, I’m a self-doubting nightmare with imposter syndrome. I should have probably said, I’m an award winning author, artist and sex toy inventor… but I’m always a bit sick in my mouth when I big myself up like that.
My blog is a safe place for me to explore my thoughts unhindered and be creative without feeling censored. I hope it is welcoming and warm for visitors.
- How long have you been blogging on this theme?
My first erotic story was published back in 2011 so it has been quite a while. I only started to get personal in the last couple of years – mainly I’d share erotic fiction – I still do but it’s the personal posts people find most interesting.
- What is your favourite type of adult toy?
Well, I guess If you know me, you may already know the answer to that – I like grindy clitoral toys that hint at penetration (ahem, cue the Ruby Glow plug) I couldn’t find the toy I really really wanted to use so I invented it…
I have never been into phallic penetrative toys at all, they make me recoil. Something I’ve begun to explore is why that might be recently – watch this space, I will blog about it soon.
- If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:
I feel like this might be one very big Ruby Glow plug – so I will choose my ever faithful Doxy.
- What’s your current sexuality? At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?
I am with my long term male lover – I am completely and utterly in love and have been for ages – however, I really feel chemistry with so many people, men and women that if I wasn’t with him, who knows? I fancy just about everyone I meet 😀
- What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex? If dressed up, how so?
I love all things in different times and places – there’s nothing more exciting than planning a night away and packing all your saucy gear. Stockings are an absolute fail-safe for me – always feel ready for action in my Cuban heels 😉
I love long socks too. My feet are always freezing so I’m afraid I do make love with them on. I truly savour when it’s warm enough to be totally naked, that’s probably my favourite of all as it’s so rare for me. To be all horny and loved up on a hot summer day, naked and ravished… oh yes.
- Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?
The one that pops up a lot in my imagination is multiple gentlemen pleasing me all at once – that would be very nice thank you.
- Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:
the painting is of an erotic encounter between a woman and an octopus or tentacled being and it has always fascinated and aroused me. So I guess a tentacled creature would do very nicely.
- Anal sex – Meh or Yay?
Yay! Always been an extremely exciting part of my sexual life.
- Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?
Well, actually, when I was younger my boyfriend’s mum came into his bedroom while I was tied naked and spread-eagled to the bedframe as he was ‘attending’ to me. We dragged the duvet over us both while she scurried around nagging my boyfriend that it was time to go so school and where was his tie! 😀 killed the moment a bit but we were basically shaking with giggles trying to silence it under the covers.
- Sexting – love it or hate it?
Love it. Got myself into a flap many a time thinking I’d hit send to the wrong person. I actually have a few times – luckily I have saucy friends who just text wild things back to me <wink>
- Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?
Well, Secretary is a particular favourite for that – I love the chemistry – the uptight strained let-me-fucking-spank-you angst. So gooood.
And Wild at Heart, when Willem Defoe is in Laura Dern’s room – it’s so sordid, there’s puke on the floor and he’s a nasty fucker to her but it is filmed so well, makes you feel dirty AF.
- Do you watch porn?
Why, yes, I most certainly do!
- Nominate your favourite adult film:
Please Please by FrolicMe – a lovely threesome on the kitchen table.
- Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:
That is mean – only one? Well there are SO MANY out there you know, you can check out Molly’s Top 100 or Kinkly lists. But one blog I will name is Happy Come Lucky – I don’t think she knows how wonderful she and her blog is so a shout out to her – particularly as her most recent post was a bit self doubt-y. I love how open she is – her post on sounding is so good.
Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings! All things Tabitha can be found in these places:
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