Sharing Long Distance #SoSS

Hello my Dark Darlings!

Well it is going to be a busy, exciting, socialising and working weekend for Miss Posy!  I am travelling to the Eroticon event organised by some of the most active members of our sex blogging community Kayla Lords, Girl on the Net, Southern Sir, Molly’s Daily Kiss, Dom Signs.  There will be some very talented speakers (I have special notebook ready for all the tips and advice I’ll need to record) but the weekend wont all be work! There are 2 socials to attend, Friday night’s has a playlist to which all attendees have contributed a song – I couldn’t choose a favourite so I suggested 2!  Filthy Gorgeous by Scissor Sisters and High Voltage by Electric Six.

P.S.  Thanks to those who sent comforting messages when I didn’t get through to the next stage of the Smut Marathon.  You are kind, but my pride is only very slightly bruised!  I knew it was a big leap from my first year of writing to competitor and there are so many wonderful authors vying for top position.  Many of my Favourite writers also fell at the first hurdle!  I promise I am cool with it, and now I have more time to write my own stuff (oh the pressure of those assignments) but I am still going to read the entries and vote each month – as should you guys (please!)

So while I am networking, I thought those of you who couldn’t attend might like to get to know a fellow blogger (who I hope to be meeting face to face! – such a novelty!)

Please meet my featured ‘Dark Darling’ – a lady who is living the BDSM lifestyle 24/7 and blogging about it –  
Master’s Pleasing Bitch : Julie

  • What made you decide to write a sex blog?

I started the first iteration of my blog in 2012 just as I strayed from my marriage with a man I had met online. He and I explored a bedroom style D/s relationship and I began to describe it online. Given that it was pretty much a diary of my life at the time, I documented my husband finding out I was cheating, getting made redundant and being dumped by my lover. That relationship resumed for a while and ended in early 2014. Since then I have formed a much longer relationship and from the start he encouraged me to continue the blog.

  • What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?

Master’s Pleasing Bitch. Originally I was known as Joolz and the blog was World of Joolz. This was a long standing nickname of mine and because I am unadventurous I used if for my blog.
Soon after we met, my now Master named me MPB – He loves to call me names like ‘bitch’ and because I am his and like to please that turned into Master’s Pleasing Bitch. It wouldn’t suit everyone, but then I am myself and His. When I moved my blog, I changed the name and it has stuck.

  • Describe your blog in a nutshell:

Predominantly the blog is about me and my journey into BDSM. Since Master and I began our relationship it has been about us. I use lots of meme’s to provide material to write about but pretty much always it is about me or our life together. From time to time I have written about other aspects of my life; the break-up of my marriage, the death of my dad etc. Lately I have begun to explore fiction writing and have joined in with this year’s Smut Marathon.
In the beginning there were few real life photos, but increasingly through #SinfulSunday these have become a feature.

  • How long have you been blogging on this theme?

My sex and kink blog has been running since 2012 and this current blog format as MPB since late 2014.

  • What is your favourite type of adult toy?

I am not sure why they are called toys? We use various implements from time to time – floggers, canes and the like. Plus restraints and spreader bars. Master has a whole room of equipment that you might refer to as toys. Whatever he chooses is a favorite of mine at the time.

  • If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:

I prefer a human, but if alone and there are no power issues then a Magic Wand is the thing to have. It’s power is immense!

  • What’s your current sexuality? At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for
  • you?

I have always been heterosexual and that won’t change. I have had one experience with another woman, but this was part of a foursome. The female on female thing wasn’t for me.

  • What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex? If dressed up, how so?

I am happy to go with whatever my partner prefers. As it happens Master mostly prefers naked, but dressed up for him is about leather and I like that too.

  • Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?

Not really, we have done most things! We might repeat a few things though…

  • Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:

I am happy with humans, thank you very much!

  • Anal sex – Meh or Yay?

Yay, it is a part of our life.

  • Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?

In my first outside of marriage affair, we stayed in a B&B. I brought some sexy clothes and toys along with me and then proceeded to leave them in the room. Later I had to return to retrieve them. That was very embarrassing, but in hindsight funny.  She was such a prissy woman, though not particularly old.

  • Sexting – love it or hate it?

It has its place so I can’t hate it. I don’t do it now though, there is no need.

  • Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?

The Secretary was my first experience of anything BDSM related, so perhaps that.

  • Do you watch porn?

Only when Master shows me something. I look at still photos, but usually only when looking for something to put on my blog.

  • Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to
  • our reading list:

Go visit Fondlers Anonymous

Visit Julie’s very honest and entertaining blog or follow her on Twitter @MPBjulie.
Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!
See you guys on the other side of the Eroticon weekend – my first public outing as Posy!

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