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After mum died instead of wearing black I began to wear deep blues – hence Indigo.Byrd? Freedom or the “blue bird of happiness” “night owl” or something else entirely… I have a studio /bedroom space in another town. I regard this as my oasis. I felt more relaxed there in the aftermath of mum’s death. Since I’m a night owl it’s often around midnight before I go to bed, and if I decide to masturbate I may be away for quite some time. This all came together in my head around the Maria Muldaur song Midnight at the Oasis…
Sex, Death, Creativity. I find it hard to separate them.
Since July last year (2017).
I have 4 favorite toys: A Womaniser Pro for my clit, Down Under Toys Tulip vibe for my vagina and a glass dildo for anal play. I also have a Godemiche Adam for the days when size does matter.
Probably a glass dildo, but I’d be hard pressed to manage without the trio mentioned above.
Largely hetero, but open to possibilities. I’ve had sex with women. I do prefer younger men – the men of my generation that I meet are often not as interesting or open. (I hate the terms cougar and toyboy). Have been largely vanilla in practice but am increasingly aware of my kinky D/s inclusions. Recovering monogamist, now open to a broader range of relationships. I’m in the best headspace at age 64 to explore aspects of my sexuality that have been absent or underdeveloped until now. All I lack is the right people to play with (but I’m working on that at my own pace).
No preference. I love the sluttiness of urgent touch through and around clothing, especially in inappropriate places. I have a collection of lingerie and fantasy dress-ups which I sometimes enjoy at the Oasis, and I generally sleep naked or just in knickers and a t-shirt. My vibrators don’t complain if I don’t dress up for them!
Limited Impact play
Tentacles are very popular in my fantasies. I have a collection of tentacle dildos. Hilarious preference in that I don’t like the ocean much.
Not that I can think of but I like to laugh in bed with a partner. Humans are often such a serious lot!
Wrong generation I think. But I often exchange flirty messages with my younger best friend who is definitely a fellow slut!
Don’t tend to watch mainstream – I like “foreign and arthouse” films more. Gadjo Dilo springs to mind – I did a post about it on KOTW a little while ago.
Sometimes, I have checked out a few female friendly sites/directors, but I prefer to read it. I also have favorite Shunga images I enjoy (not all of which have tentacles).
The only porn I own and watch is an Abby Winters Lesbian erotica (can’t recall the name) – the relaxed interactions and the hot fingering in it is fabulous.
Couldn’t chose 1 favourite! CousinPons @books1799 for his wonderful erotic writing or LasciviousLucy @LasciviousLucy for her erotic supernatural writing and some excellent historical images.
Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings! You should check out Indigo’s blog, in particular to soak up the arty stuff she promotes and shares.