Good Morning!
It’s a sunny Saturday morning (where I live!) and I am ready once again for some blogger caring and sharing!

Jerusalem Mortimer shares some spicy erotica http://jerusalemmortimer.com/serving-and-serv

icing-1/ Twitter: @JaimeMortimer

A shot of Erotica breaks his creative drought with this outdoor quickie Twitter: @A_M_Harding https://shotoferotica.blogspot.co.uk/2018/02/forest-fun.html?showComment=1518464081203#c1770439549931052939

Twitter: @TitsandTestTube

A blindfold and the promise of a bite from Twitter: @Livvy_Libertine https://livvylibertine.wordpress.com/2018/01/25/kink-of-the-week-blindfolds-bite-me/
Also this week I decided to write something for the #FlashFriday meme.  When I’d tried once before I couldn’t keep to the wordcount of under 500, so this post by Malin James  really helped me.

I also found this post from the Smutlancer (our own @KaylaLords) interesting and I hope to learn more on similar topics at Eroticon in March!  Squeee!

My Interviewee answering questions from ‘the comfy chair’ today is Indigo Byrd who blogs under the lovely name of Midnight-atthe-Oasis  and she tweets as @midnightoasis64



  • What made you decide to write a sex blog?

Blogging was a way of coping after my Mum died. I’d been her carer for 3 years and I started writing to make sense of my life in her absence.

A short time after she passed I woke up in the middle of an orgasm – a sign that my sexual self was returning after a long absence. As the only help that was on hand was a zucchini, I decided to be adventurous and buy a vibrator online. The rest is history! (I have a ridiculously extensive collection now)
While I have done a number of posts that deal with death and dying in the aftermath of these events since I started participating in memes the other side of my blogging no longer gets much airplay.

  • What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?

After mum died instead of wearing black I began to wear deep blues – hence Indigo.Byrd? Freedom or the “blue bird of happiness” “night owl” or something else entirely…  I have a studio /bedroom space in another town. I regard this as my oasis. I felt more relaxed there in the aftermath of mum’s death. Since I’m a night owl it’s often around midnight before I go to bed, and if I decide to masturbate I may be away for quite some time. This all came together in my head around the Maria Muldaur song Midnight at the Oasis

  • Describe your blog in a nutshell:
Sex, Death, Creativity.  I find it hard to separate them.
  • How long have you been blogging on this theme?
Since July last year (2017).

  • What is your favourite type of adult toy?
I have 4 favorite toys: A Womaniser Pro for my clit, Down Under Toys Tulip vibe for my vagina and a glass dildo for anal play. I also have a Godemiche Adam for the days when size does matter.

  • If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:
Probably a glass dildo, but I’d be hard pressed to manage without the trio mentioned above.

  • What’s your current sexuality?  At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?
Largely hetero, but open to possibilities. I’ve had sex with women. I do prefer younger men – the men of my generation that I meet are often not as interesting or open. (I hate the terms cougar and toyboy). Have been largely vanilla  in practice but am increasingly aware of my kinky D/s inclusions. Recovering monogamist, now open to a broader range of relationships. I’m in the best headspace at age 64 to explore aspects of my sexuality that have been absent or underdeveloped until now. All I lack is the right people to play with (but I’m working on that at my own pace).
  • What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex?  If dressed up, how so?
No preference. I love the sluttiness of urgent touch through and around clothing, especially in inappropriate places. I have a collection of lingerie and fantasy dress-ups which I sometimes enjoy at the Oasis, and I generally sleep naked or just in knickers and a t-shirt. My vibrators don’t complain if I don’t dress up for them!
  • Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?
Shibari Rope
Limited Impact play
  • Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:
Tentacles are very popular in my fantasies. I have a collection of tentacle dildos. Hilarious preference in that I don’t like the ocean much.

  • Anal sex – Meh or Yay?
Yay!!!!
  • Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?
Not that I can think of but I like to laugh in bed with a partner. Humans are often such a serious lot!
  • Sexting – love it or hate it?
Wrong generation I think. But I often exchange flirty messages with my younger best friend who is definitely a fellow slut!

  • Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?
Don’t tend to watch mainstream – I like “foreign and arthouse” films more. Gadjo Dilo springs to mind – I did a post about it on KOTW a little while ago.

  • Do you watch porn?  
Sometimes, I have checked out a few female friendly sites/directors, but I prefer to read it. I also have favorite Shunga images I enjoy (not all of which have tentacles).
  • Nominate your favourite adult film:
The only porn I own and watch is an Abby Winters Lesbian erotica (can’t recall the name) – the  relaxed interactions and the hot fingering in it is fabulous.
  • Before you go, please tell us an adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:
Couldn’t chose 1 favourite! CousinPons @books1799 for his wonderful erotic writing or LasciviousLucy @LasciviousLucy for her erotic supernatural writing and some excellent historical images.

Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!  You should check out Indigo’s blog, in particular to soak up the arty stuff she promotes and shares.

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