Hello Dark and Lovely people, lets get right into our Saturday routine of me listing what I have cherry picked for your reading delight:-
This Saturday (10 February 2018), my Dark Darlings, I want to introduce you to a complex and interesting writer who embraces sexual discussions and spicy erotica on her blog Hannah Likes Dirty Words
- What made you decide to write a sex blog?
Self obsession really – I’d already been a published author for a couple of years and really wanted somewhere to dump my works in progress and try to build an audience.
- What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?
Well Hannah does like dirty words 🙂 Hannah is actually my middle name. It’s also a palindrome, which I enjoy. I picked Lockhardt because I wanted something slightly germanic-sounding as German is to me the sexiest language.
- Describe your blog in a nutshell:
Per my blog blurb: “Writing, extracts, pleas to buy my books, the odd essay.”
- How long have you been blogging on this theme?
A year on this blog (December 2016) and maybe closer to two if you include my abortive tumblr account.
- What is your favourite type of adult toy?
Hmmmm, I have lots of favourites for different reasons so I think I’ll go for a toy with two different but equally pleasurable applications – my nipple sticks from Kink Craft, both for their actual use, but also because they can be used as a gag – keeping my tongue protruding – without bothering my sensitive gag reflex.
- If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:
This one is tough! A Doxy would probably best seeing as you can use it as a back massager too!
- What’s your current sexuality? At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?
The day I discovered the term heteroflexible, I realised this was the best label for me, and this has been just in the past year. I’ve always known I was attracted to women, but as I definitely preferred men for relationships I just assumed that this all fell within the definition of straight and never really questioned it further.
- What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex? If dressed up, how so?
I love those moments stolen when you should be doing something else – when you have something time-sensitive in the oven, or the cab is due at 9pm. Half dressed, just the bare essentials removed due to pure urgency…..
- Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?
Nothing I’m going to commit to the internet! But definitely some I’ve only brushed the surface of. Maybe 2018 is the year.
- Anal sex – Meh or Yay?
Butts are for pooping. Also, I have a keychain that says “I’m a shit sub and I don’t want stuff up my bum” and far be it from me to be a hypocrite.
- Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?
I giggle a lot during sex, sex without giggles isn’t the best sex I could be having, for the most part.
- Sexting – love it or hate it?
- Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?
In Zack and Miri make a Porno, the scene where they have sex for the first time is so pure and beautiful, when I’m in bad places romantically I can’t watch it.
- Do you watch porn?
I do. I also pay for my porn when I can.
- Nominate your favourite adult film:
The original 1970s full length Josephine Mutzenbacher film. It has everything that’s good about 1970s porn in it – non-augmented bodies, pubes, accurate costuming and an actual plot.
- Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:
Aargh! There are so many and all the ones I want to pick are mates as well … but Exhibit A is consistently wonderful (http://exhibitunadorned.com/)
Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!
Hannah on Twitter: twitter.com/hannahlockhardt