Sharing : Another Superstar Blogger is Interviewed!

Hello my Dark Darlings, welcome to another Saturday post where I am sharing by ‘lifting the lid’ on a very prominent blogger who I admire – May Moore has kindly agreed to answer my interview questions.

What made you decide to write a sex blog?

My man and I had been together a few years when he put the idea in my head. He couldn’t believe how much I talked about sex. The reason being he was so easy to be open with. I had not enjoyed such honest sexual conversation since I was young, so I took advantage of it Anyhow, at that time I was going to start a blog about nutrition, as I am qualified in that area, but at the last minute I changed my mind and made it a sex blog!

What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?

That’s a very good question and one I will be writing a post about sometime in the near future. Lets just say for now that a version of May More was my name once.

Describe your blog in a nutshell:

I see my blog as a living thing. It has evolved over the last year and I am confident will continue to do so. Originally I was just writing about the relationship I have with my man – erotic non-fiction. Focusing on the attributes of communication and honesty. Occasionally, I would write a more serious lifestyle article too. But when I got involved with the memes Sinful Sunday and Wicked Wednesday I really found I enjoyed publishing photos, (although the more risqué ones are in my password protected gallery), and then tried my hand at erotic fiction.

How long have you been blogging on this theme?

I started my blog near the beginning of 2016 but because of a serious injury I sustained it was put on the back burner until about a year ago.

What is your favourite type of adult toy?

Apart from whips, rope and the occasional blindfold we don’t really use many sex toys. I have a butt plug I quite like and recently I did a Guest Review for Molly Moore and got to keep the bullet vibrators – They have become a welcome addition to my sex life! Since then I have certainly thought about trying some other toys.

If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:

Goodness, I don’t know. I have my mind that constantly thinks about filth so I think I would skip the toy and take a good book!

What’s your current sexuality? At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?

Sexuality seems to be a loaded question these days. I think I am heterosexual – I have never had sex with a woman. Though when I was a teenager a girlfriend and I explored each others bodies a little. I really think you fall in love with the person, not their gender. Hope that answers the question.

What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex? If dressed up, how so?

I like dressing up for sex on a date night. Sexy or slutty clothes – heels – stockings – you know the look! There are plenty of photos on my site with me dressed in such a way.

Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?

One of my main fantasies is being fucked by a couple of guys while my man has to watch. But I think we will leave that one safely in my head! A fantasy I did have, and he made it come true for me, was one that had plagued me ever since I fell in love with the Rocky Horror show. My man carried it off with panache, hold-ups, my black lacy knickers over the knee boots, a tight waistcoat and of course a whip. It was fucking horny! You can read about it here.

Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:

The character Roy Batty from Blade Runner – played by Rutger Hauer. In fact Nero put out a tweet with a fab photo of him only the other day.

Anal sex – Meh or Yay?

I used to really enjoy anal but I had it too much with a past lover and now me and my man only venture there once in a blue moon. I have enjoyed it in the past though and the intense orgasms it helps you achieve.

Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?

Oh my goodness my man and I laugh such a lot when having sex. I adore the moment when he cums as he really puts so much enthusiasm into it that usually we both fall back on the bed laughing at that point.

Years ago a boyfriend of mine was trying to shag me in a shop doorway in London. That was quite amusing as even though it was late at night we were disturbed a few times so gave up. I remember travelling home on the train with my knickers in my pocket, smiling.

Sexting – love it or hate it?

We spend 24/7 together so don’t really get into the sexting. There was a time before we were a couple when we would text sometimes, but they were usually more serious and only occasionally would it be class it as a ‘sext’. Also my man hates the phone so it never gets overused.

Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?

Difficult question – I remember seeing Nine and a Half Weeks years ago and loved some of the scenes in that. But Mickey Rourke (then) was so damn sexy.

Do you watch porn?

I used to watch porn before I started reading and writing smut every day! I don’t feel the need for it so much now. My man does now and then. Once I sucked his cock kneeling in front of him whilst he watched some porn.

When I was young I used to watch it with a group of friends in a recreational setting. That was cool. It was movies in those days. I think now that porn is on tap, because of the internet, it has lost its allure.

Nominate your favourite adult film:

That’s a difficult one – as I said I used to watch porn movies with friends – they were made in the 70’s. Bloody hilarious. Always such a naff story, but a story nevertheless. And my first boyfriend used to take me to see the Emmanuel films. I don’t have a favourite. I don’t watch TV nowadays and if I watch a movie it’s usually an old black and white one (as they are made so much better than modern films).

Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:

There are so many great blogs out there. I could write a list from memory of all the ones I like and it would fill up another page. But if I have to name just one it would be Cara Theron’s blog. I love the general style of her writing and even when her topics are slightly controversial she never sensationalises the story, it remains believable. I also enjoy her more personal pieces – If I had time I would read something of hers everyday

Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!

It was fun!

You can find me at my blog Sex Matters and on Twitter as May More.

[Please excuse the inconsistency with font, I always have trouble formatting these interviews into my blog … Posy is not tech-y!]