Hello my Dark Darlings, welcome to another Saturday post where I am sharing by ‘lifting the lid’ on a very prominent blogger who I admire – May Moore has kindly agreed to answer my interview questions.
What made you decide to write a sex blog?
What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?
Describe your blog in a nutshell:
I see my blog as a living thing. It has evolved over the last year and I am confident will continue to do so. Originally I was just writing about the relationship I have with my man – erotic non-fiction. Focusing on the attributes of communication and honesty. Occasionally, I would write a more serious lifestyle article too. But when I got involved with the memes Sinful Sunday and Wicked Wednesday I really found I enjoyed publishing photos, (although the more risqué ones are in my password protected gallery), and then tried my hand at erotic fiction.
- How long have you been blogging on this theme?
I started my blog near the beginning of 2016 but because of a serious injury I sustained it was put on the back burner until about a year ago.
- What is your favourite type of adult toy?
Apart from whips, rope and the occasional blindfold we don’t really use many sex toys. I have a butt plug I quite like and recently I did a Guest Review for Molly Moore and got to keep the bullet vibrators – They have become a welcome addition to my sex life! Since then I have certainly thought about trying some other toys.
- If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:
Goodness, I don’t know. I have my mind that constantly thinks about filth so I think I would skip the toy and take a good book!
- What’s your current sexuality? At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?
Sexuality seems to be a loaded question these days. I think I am heterosexual – I have never had sex with a woman. Though when I was a teenager a girlfriend and I explored each others bodies a little. I really think you fall in love with the person, not their gender. Hope that answers the question.
- What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex? If dressed up, how so?
I like dressing up for sex on a date night. Sexy or slutty clothes – heels – stockings – you know the look! There are plenty of photos on my site with me dressed in such a way.
- Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?
One of my main fantasies is being fucked by a couple of guys while my man has to watch. But I think we will leave that one safely in my head! A fantasy I did have, and he made it come true for me, was one that had plagued me ever since I fell in love with the Rocky Horror show. My man carried it off with panache, hold-ups, my black lacy knickers over the knee boots, a tight waistcoat and of course a whip. It was fucking horny! You can read about it here.
- Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:
- Anal sex – Meh or Yay?
I used to really enjoy anal but I had it too much with a past lover and now me and my man only venture there once in a blue moon. I have enjoyed it in the past though and the intense orgasms it helps you achieve.
- Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?
Oh my goodness my man and I laugh such a lot when having sex. I adore the moment when he cums as he really puts so much enthusiasm into it that usually we both fall back on the bed laughing at that point.
- Sexting – love it or hate it?
We spend 24/7 together so don’t really get into the sexting. There was a time before we were a couple when we would text sometimes, but they were usually more serious and only occasionally would it be class it as a ‘sext’. Also my man hates the phone so it never gets overused.
- Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?
Difficult question – I remember seeing Nine and a Half Weeks years ago and loved some of the scenes in that. But Mickey Rourke (then) was so damn sexy.
- Do you watch porn?
I used to watch porn before I started reading and writing smut every day! I don’t feel the need for it so much now. My man does now and then. Once I sucked his cock kneeling in front of him whilst he watched some porn.
- Nominate your favourite adult film:
That’s a difficult one – as I said I used to watch porn movies with friends – they were made in the 70’s. Bloody hilarious. Always such a naff story, but a story nevertheless. And my first boyfriend used to take me to see the Emmanuel films. I don’t have a favourite. I don’t watch TV nowadays and if I watch a movie it’s usually an old black and white one (as they are made so much better than modern films).
Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:
[Please excuse the inconsistency with font, I always have trouble formatting these interviews into my blog … Posy is not tech-y!]