Sharing Saturday #SoSS No.6
Blogger Uncovered – Posy Churchgate
In recent months I’ve discovered some awesome new blogs which I think I’ll make a special post about so look out for that. But here is my usual interview script with me providing the truthful answers.
What made you decide to write a sex blog?
I’ve always enjoyed talking about sex! For a long time I didn’t know how to deal with it: It seemed immature and it can be misread in a social setting as a vehicle for flirting (not my intention). The fact is – I’m always curious about what other people do. What are their kinks? What can they recommend or advise against? I’m curious about it all. I love giving advice and (let’s be honest) I get off talking and reading about it! So writing a sex blog enables me to achieve involvement in all aspects.
What’s behind the title of your blog?
“Pillow Talk” is a phrase which refers to couples talking together, sharing secrets or intimacies, after having sex. Pillow conjures up an image of being ‘in bed’ and I’m hoping erotica like mine is the ultimate bedtime story.
Describe your blog in a nutshell:
Primarily the blog is a forum for my erotic short stories, but to add variety there are reviews of erotic books I’ve read, discussions on sex topics and evaluation and opinions on adult toys (I have a new contributor, so it won’t always be me trying the toys).
How long have you been blogging on this theme?
I created this blog on New Year’s Eve 2016, so just less than a year, but I started out writing erotic short stories and posting them on Literotica a few months before that having read discussions about erotic writing in a Lovehoney chat room.
What is your favourite type of adult toy?
Previously vibrators, but my glass dildo is catching up fast as its so great to use with my partner.
If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:
The Tracey Cox Supersex USB Rechargeable G-spot Vibrator
What’s your current sexuality? At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?
I am heterosexual, I’ve always felt this way. Although I view other women as attractive, sexually alluring creatures, it’s more from a standpoint of appreciating their various allures rather than finding them physically appealing to me.
What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex? If dressed up, how so?
Always dressed up! Underwear, or kinky-wear, stockings or boots (I Love boots) naked makes me feel vulnerable!
Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?
Wax play – having read some product reviews and plenty of stories which involve it, I feel lured towards (but terrified about) exploring it. My OH may not be ready quite yet though!!
Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:
That’s easy – Vampires! I am a mega fan of the Sookie Stackhouse books [True Blood to you TV heathens!] and I loved the Twilight saga and Anita Blake vampire hunter, so I’m longing to be a Fang-banger!
Anal sex – Meh or Yay?
Anal sex is something I’m building up to, training with plugs and toys, having endured a couple of badly executed attempts in my youth. I know I can do it better!
Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?
In my first physical relationship my BF & I used to park up somewhere and play for hours. I liked to keep the interior light on to see … one night we had a visit from a policeman (by then I was only wearing a mint green thong) he knocked on the window to ask us what we were up to; apparently a resident had seen the light from the car & suspected we were planning a burglary!!
Sexting – love it or hate it?
Not had the opportunity to do it (OH hates to text) but I think it could be super fun and very sexy, getting your imagination and libido simmering prior to the big event!
Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?
There’s an american film called Bound where Jennifer Tilly is a gangster’s girlfriend – she finds herself attracted to female ex-con Gina Gershon when she comes to fix the plumbing. The first scene when they are acknowledging their attraction and comparing tatoos is so sexy and tense, Violet (Jennifer) just oozes feminine sexuality and Corky (Gina)’s tomboy has a toned body and a ‘bad girl’ look which I found very hot.
Do you watch porn?
Not really, it’s always so fake looking, everyone is unnaturally toned, flexible, waxed. Their facial expressions and the noises they make have me cringing.
Nominate your favourite adult film:
Sorry I really don’t have one.
Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:
That would have to be Scandarella’s : Her erotic stories are so varied in style, content and yet always hit the mark. The site is very professional, her product reviews and opinion pieces are great. She’s even made time to give me some mentoring, so a ‘full house’ regarding this customer’s satisfaction.